Love And Hope And Sex And Dreams: Hate-Fuck Your Way Out Of A Dry Spell
Some men assume it’s possible for a woman to have sex whenever she wants to, but that’s not exactly correct. Yes, technically I could get cat-called tomorrow morning and hop on a dick shortly thereafter, but that assumes my desire to have sex supersedes my desire to maintain my physical safety, as well as my desire to take pleasure in the sex itself, which tells you a lot about the sexual and emotional dexterity of men who assume I want to solve my problems that way. “Available partner” and “desirable partner” are not the same thing, which means we all occasionally have something it’s weird to admit exists while young, attractive and living in a city of 8 million people: a dry spell.